Boilers can be big: 7 1/4" loco (yes in copper) to small 3" vertical........ Which size were you thinking about building?
I alternate between a 3940 and a 2942 nozzle. I have never used the 3537 Jewellers Burner. I also use a 3944 and a 2960 when I did 5" loco boilers (silly idea I get them made now
). With a 3509 neck tube.
I use my 3488 handle all the time, the pilot jet/main burner is very useful. I use a standard handle only with my roofing nozzle for keeping 5" boilers hot enough with the much longer 3510 neck tube .
It is cheaper to go to your local tip and pick up a second hand propane bottle than paying the initial bottle fee plus the gas cost. A 13Kg bottle is easy to lift a 19Kg is less and the bigger size again will give you problems. The 13Kg when running the larger burners can ice up - I normally use two bottles a 19Kg on the roofing nozzle and the 13Kg for where I am soldering.
The kits are always a good starting point but be careful you don't get dinged with the single control handle
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Nearly forgot: Don't forget a hose failure valve: 305401.
Jo